THE
CAMPBELL FAMILY
FARM STORY
Told
by Willis A. Campbell
Edited
by Doreen Campbell
Produced
by Cheryl Campbell (Weber)
Hopefully
enjoyed by all the other Campbell’s
“Due
to the inspiration of Stephanie Low (June Campbell’s daughter) this booklet
was created, to hold many fond memories of life on the Campbell Family Farm. My
love and thanks go out to Doreen, my life long companion and friend for over 50
years, for her help and support in creating these writings. A special thank you
to my daughter Cheryl for all the work in preparing this booklet. This booklet
would probably never been completed without her dedication. Finally, a thank you
to my dear family for making these precious memories and joys on the farm
possible.”
Willis A. Campbell
June
30, 1999
THE
CAMPBELL
FAMILY
FARM STORY
In
the beginning there was, and still is, a family called Campbell
and
according to their history one young lad wished to marry a certain Scottish
lassie. Since their parents didn't approve, they ran away from Scotland
and settled in Westmeath, Ireland.
Since that time on, we have been considered as the Irish
Campbells.
One
of their many children was John Campbell, my great, great grandfather. He grew
up and married Susan White . They had seven children, one of which was named
William who was born in 1821 in Westmeath,
Ireland. In 1840 from Athlone,
Westmeath, Ireland, John and Susan and their family sailed to Montreal,
Quebec where John worked as a Sea Captain on the St. Lawrence River from Montreal
to Quebec City in Lower
Canada.
William
married Ann Cassidy, daughter of Patrick Cassidy and Sarah Irwin who also came
over from Derrygonnelly, County Fermanagh
Ireland in 1821 and settled in Keldare,
near Rawdon, Quebec.
Patrick's brother Connoly Cassidy married Margaret Irwin and settled in
the same area. Their son Greighton Cassidy and Maria Robinson had eleven
children and one of their daughters name Margaret Jane Maria Cassidy who later
married William and Ann's son John.
Upon
William and Ann's coming to Upper Canada,
they settled about a mile north of the Village
of Belwood which is about 5 miles north-east of Fergus, on Lot 14, Con.7E, West
Garafraxa Township. Over the
past number of years this has become known as the Buster Clark farm whose great
grandfather was a brother of my great grandfather Sandy Clark. They lived across
the road from the Campbells on Lot 14, Con.8W, West
Garafraxa. Legend has it that when one of the mothers wanted to go to town,
the other kept the children, and they shared the same bonnet.
William
and Ann Campbell raised a family of twelve children. Unfortunately one died as a
baby from causes unknown to me. Their
son, John married Margaret Jane Maria Cassidy in 1884 and had four children,
Lillian Cornelius 1885, Albert (my father)1888, Wilhelmina Donaghy 1895 and
Arloa Legate 1898. Their complete family history can be found in the The
Campbell Family Tree Book.
THE
COMING TO LUTHER
In
1875 William Campbell purchased three hundred acres of bush land in East
Luther Township on Lot 19&20 N1/2 and Lot 19 S1/2 Con I.
William's son John eventually settled on Lot 19N1/2 and his brother James
settled on Lot 19 S1/2. James daughter was named Queenie Campbell, the principle
author of The Campbell Family Tree book.
This
property was all virgin bush and forest that had been taken out from the crown
in 1858 by a Thomas Stayner in compensation for land that he gave for
development of the City of Toronto.
My
father, Albert has related to me many stories about the settling of this
property, that he was told by his father, John. The following are a few of these
stories.
William
used to come up from Belwood with his
boys to start clearing the land so it could be turned into productive farm land
which meant that huge piles of brush would be burned. This often got out of
control and time had to be spent putting out fires, with William counting the
boys as they went in and out of the burning areas. Eventually the land was
cleared and a foundation was dug by using oxen and a humble log home was
constructed.
This
original log house still stands occupied today. It had first been covered with
lath and plaster but after about 25 years it began to fall off. A new addition,
the kitchen was added in 1912 and the entire house was covered with homemade
cement blocks. Dad tells of mixing
the cement by hand to fill the forms for the mason, Adam Densmore, who laid the
blocks.
In
1949 electric power became available and in '51 an oil fired furnace was
installed for central heating, along with a bathroom with hot and cold running
water and a full set of kitchen cupboards. Another addition was added to the
north side of the kitchen to replace the woodshed in 1965, a family room with a
fireplace and a second bathroom.
Going
back to the 1800's, another family of Campbells (Sam) lived across the road on
what we know as the Densmore 50 and later Ollie Benhams. This family was not
related to us. Dad tells the story that they had a very cross baby who cried and
cried, so the mother in an effort to sooth him started to give the baby Laudim
and after a long period of time the baby began to sleep endlessly so they called
the doctor. He said the baby was receiving enough drug to kill a horse so a
reversal program had to be started to wean him from the drug.
About
the same time the barn that was on the Sam Campbell property caught fire and the
strong wind was blowing the blazing shingles directly to our house and my
grandmother (Margaret Jane) spent most of the night on the roof putting out
fires as they ignited.
Dad
continued to tell me of the time he was only seven years old in 1895 when the 40
by 60 foot frame barn was cut in half and raised up to be put on a foundation.
He would carry water to the working men. The Densmore barn across the road was
split and raised the next year but a high wind blew one half off the foundation.
The house and barn on the James Campbell property down the road was built in the
early 1900's.
Albert
Campbell and Elizabeth Ann Small were married in 1914 and on May 23, 1916 Irwin
was born. Dad and Elizabeth, known as Lizzie started housekeeping down the road
on the James Campbell farm Lot 19 S1/2 and moved to Lot 19N1/2, the original
homestead, in 1918 after his father, John, retired. John and Margaret Jane moved
to Grand Valley.
On
June 4, 1919 while dad was doing the chores down the road a severe lightning
storm came up and struck their home while his wife Lizzie was looking out the
bedroom window upstairs patiently waiting the safe return of Albert. While doing
so she was struck and killed instantly. Lizzie was also expecting their second
child at the time. Irwin, who was three, was sitting in a near-by dresser drawer
which acted as his bed, remembers his mother being struck and falling before
him. When dad arrived home, the bedroom curtains were smoldering.
This
double tragedy was mourned for years and the burn marks are still evident today
under the new flooring and on the outside stone wall. The whole community
rallied around in sympathy. It was said to be one of the largest funerals to be
held in the area, with a procession of horse and buggies over a mile long
following the hearse to Grand Valley.
The
next two years were very hard for dad to farm and raise a young son even though
he had a number of housekeepers to help him. On January 12, 1921 he remarried.
Jennie Middleton Clark (1891) became an instand mother to Irwin. I was born on
September 17, 1923, and June was born nine years later on January 12, 1933.
In
1928, during the great depression, prices of farm produce fell to an all time
low, 2 to 3 cents a pound for a fat steer. You might get $20.00 for it after
feeding it for two years. Hogs were about the same, maybe $5.00 a pig. Farmers
tried to produce as much of their food as possible so they wouldn't have to
spent any money which they didn't have. It seemed the harder you worked to get
ahead, the further behind you went into debt. It wasn't until the late Thirties
and after the start of World War II that there was money for some of the extras.
You could get help with your farm work by supplying board and tobacco to a
single man for only $1.00 a day, and that was top wages. After the start of the
war many men enlisted and went overseas to fight and many unfortunately never
returned.
Irwin
Campbell left the farm in the fall of 1937 and married Esther Prentice on
September 20, 1942. They celebrated Fifty years of marriage in 1992 after which
Irwins health continued to deteriorate and he passed away peaceably on December
20, 1994 at seventy-eight years of age. I had hoped he could of helped me write
this history of the Campbell Farm. Fortunately I have remembered many of the
stories our dad told him and he himself experienced, so I could include them in
these writings.
My
sister June, left the farm in 1951, to go to the big city of Toronto where she
met and married Ron Low in 1954. She then remarried in 1981 to Bob Turnbull.
The
lower James Campbell farm was sold to the Crewson family who in turn sold to
James Legate. The Legate family lived on the farm until 1942 when he had a sale
and let the farm fall back to the Estate of John Campbell. Dad (Albert) then
purchased it from his sisters and we operated it along with the homestead, a
total of 300 acres.
I
had acquired my Grade nine education when I quit school in 1938 to work full
time with dad on the two farms. On August 31, 1944 I had the misfortune of
losing the end of my thumb in the hay fork pulley.
In
November of 1944 I met Mary Doreen Mountain, a beautiful sweet seventeen year
old. She was working in Fergus at
Beattie Bros. in munitions. We naturally fell in love and were married on June
12, 1946.
Doreen's
parents lived on a farm in Normanby
Township, Durham, Ontario until 1945 when her father, Stanley tragically
died in June of that year and her mother Alva Metcalfe Mountain sold the farm to
Robert Lee. He married Anna Lawrence also in June 1946 and we have been very
close friends ever since. Together we celebrate fifty years of marriage in June
of 1996.
Alva
lived on the property until she bought a house in Durham
beside the Durham Chair factory. In the fall of 1963 she was struck by a
bicyclist while walking home one evening and was severally injured, never to
regain concousness. She died in May 1964. It was a sad and stressfull year for
our family, especially for Doreen and her sister Myrtle. It is also interesting
to note that Doreen's great, great grandfather, Henry Metcalfe, settled in Nichol
Township just below Ennotville on
Highway #6 just south of Fergus in
1834. The Metcalfe family came from England
and are buried in Mount Pleasant Cemetery on land he donated for a church and
cemetery.
After
Doreen and I were married, we bought and settled into the original homestead
Campbell farm and operated the two hundred acres, while mother and dad moved
down the road to the lower farm of one hundred acres. Dad depended on me to make
the day to day decisions regarding the farming. I don't think a day went by that
mother and dad didn't come up the road to see what we were doing, usually
catching us still eating breakfast, as we seemed to have more morning chores to
do before breakfast than they did.
Going
back quite a few years now when there was no electric power, no modern farm
machinery, all the field work was done with horses. Cultivating, plowing,
sowing, binding and even threshing was powered with a team of two horses. A
custom thresher used to come around in the fall of the year and we would move
the threshing machine into the barn and our neighbours would all come and work
at unloading the sheaves from the mows. They would all be put through the
machine and this would fill the grainary with the grain and the straw which was
left would be blown to the back of the barn or in a stack outside.
The
ladies would provide meals for everybody. We would come in covered in dust and
dirt, sometimes almost to sick to eat from breathing the dusty air in the barn
for hours. After spending two to three weeks returning the work with the other
farmers in the area, we would become accustomed to the dust and look forward to
the meals. I remember at Gordon
Richardsons, the farm adjoining our farm on the next line, we would always have
Swiss steak for supper. It was so delicious, along with lots of canned fruit and
pies. The ladies tried to feed you the best they possibly could as they realized
the dirty job we had to do. Since then, Doreen has prepared Swiss steak many,
many times for our family and I take my turn to cook it myself for the two of us
now.
In
those early days we did not grow corn as we did not have a silo until 1963, but
I used to go to a lot of silo fillings. You would load the big corn sheaves onto
the wagons and they were then put through the cutting box and blown into the
silo. This was a fairly clean job, and you really developed an appetite.
Sometime
after, a few tractors came into the community and we would hire one to plow a
sod field for us. Up until 1940 dad and I would do nearly all the plowing with a
single furrow walking plow powered by two horses. You were lucky if you plowed
two acres a day. We always looked forward to the hours rest at noon as you had
to feed and rest the team of horses. It was about 1940 dad bought a two furrowed
riding plow from Tom Taylor and then we would use four horses to plow.
In
August 1944 we bought our first tractor, an International Farmal (see picture of
me on the Farmal on front cover), with a two furrow plow, which I later
converted to three furrows. In 1953 I bought a Ford tractor for doing light work
and the horses were finally retired and put out to pasture. I eventually
purchased a White Cockshut 1850 that pulled five furrows that would cultivate up
to twenty feet at one time. Of course the old Farmal, dangerous as it could be,
was always my favorite.
THE
HORSES
As
mentioned earlier, the horses were a very important part of our life on the
farm. They were used to work the land, sow the crops and for transportation to
town and also for entertainment. These are just a few stories I remember of the
horses we owned.
First
there was Trim, who was purchased from Mr. Hanna near Belwood.
He was four years old before being broke in. He turned out to be a very
dependable horse, as he loved to be in town on a Saturday afternoon and couldn't
wait to race any horse that was ahead of him. I remember taking him to church in
Grand Valley one Sunday morning when
I was only nine years old, and almost smashed the cutter into a hydro pole while
turning into the church. He would always stop at the command of Whoa if you were
in trouble which I was.
Another
time, when dad was driving home from Grand
Valley in the buggy with Trim in the spring of 1932 or 33. He was driving
past Henry Newsons gate when Trim just dropped out of shafts and left dad in the
buggy sitting on the road. Roy Lobby had been working for Newsons and had taken
his 44-40 rifle out to shoot crows and when it discharged it struck Trim in the
flank in front of the hind legs. The bullet glanced and went under the skin and
lodged on the other side. Trim bolted about a hundred feet then turned around
and returned back to dad. Roy came out and he and dad replaced the harness and
Trim and dad drove home, a mile down the road. Trim was taken to Dr. Hughes who
operated and removed the bullet. He recovered with no ill effects.
He died in 1938 trying to jump over a fence. He got tangled up in the
fence wire and we didn't find him until the next day.
In
the 1930's we had Dolly. She used to take me to school in the front bob of a
sled with a box on it, so I could keep out of the wind and return home by
herself. At 8:20 A.M. every morning the train would go by on its way up to Teeswater.
I would try to be at the tracks which was only a quarter mile up the road, and
would start up the grade to wait for the train to go by. Dolly loved the train.
One
morning as she was coming home from school a train snowplow was coming along
after the train and Doll, true to her training started up the grade and stopped.
The engineer tried to stop but couldn't until he was already past the crossing.
The stressed engineer looked back to see that Doll had turned around about fifty
feet and was now going over the tracks.
In
the fall and spring, I used to ride her to school and then send her home. I was
very fond of her and hated to see her take that last trip to where all good
horses go when they die.
We
had numerous other colts in the earlier years, some of which were good and some
bad. Spot was one such horse, a bad actor. In 1942 when dad was in Orangeville
staying with his mother before she died, Spot kicked the post with both feet
above my head as I started to go up beside her. We finally broke her, but you
couldn't trust her. We finally sold her to George Duncan who worked her in the
bush, but that never turned her around either.
Nell
and Queen were the last team of heavy horses we had before aquiring the
tractors. They got off easy.
Another
horse named Gertie, was the mother of King, 1932, and Ted, 1933. I spotted King
out in the field when he was born and I laid claim to him. I used to drive and
ride him all over the county. I rode him to highschool in Grand
Valley and drove him in the buggy and cutter.
One
day while going to highschool I took King to the Blacksmith Shop to have him
shod. I left him all day and when I returned at four o'clock I jumped on his
back and because I liked to go fast we took off around the corner only to find
out that his new shoes were slippery which landed me on the road with my foot
caught in the stirrup. I talked to him until my foot came loose. We were careful
after that, especially after getting new shoes.
He
also worked on the farm and drove the hearse with his brother Ted in the winter
months. One weekend they went over one hundred miles. Ted took colic and died in
the barn down the road at an old age. King lived for thirty two years and had to
be disposed of in 1964 as he could hardly get up or walk anymore. King brought
many years of companionship and enjoyment to our four children, the neighbour
children and all the cousins that couldn't wait to get on his back for a ride.
Our
children all have their own stories they can tell of the fun with King. It was a
sad day to see King go but the kids understood we couldn't let him suffer.
THE
SNOW
Enough
about the horses. Now let me share with you about our winters and winters they
were. We have always been noted for having lots of snow and storms in Luther
Twp. On the last Sunday of February of 1947, Doreen’s first winter with me, we
had had an excess of snow and mother and dad awoke to two men pounding on the
door. They had been stuck on Highway #9, which is only a quarter mile from the
farm, and at first light walked to the first farm house for warmth. On the
following Tuesday night the highway from our sideroad to Tom Tindal’s sideroad
which is one mile away, became blocked and twenty one cars and trucks were stuck
and twenty six people were stranded. Dad took the team and sleigh to the road to
check it out and found one car where the people had stayed in all night and one
lady was deathly ill from the fumes from the exhaust.
The
people were all divided between Tindal’s, Mom and Dad's and our place. At
Tindal’s, one fellow had been a cook in the army and took over the kitchen.
There was a meat truck stuck, so we had no shortage of meat and mother stayed up
two nights baking bread. On Friday I took a number of people to the station by
horse and sleigh, and they left by train. Then I brought home more supplies for
our survival. Saturday night at about 6:00 P.M. a snowplow started at each end
of the road and they worked all night to clear a path and we started to lose our
guests that morning. Monday morning found more storms and another truck stuck at
Tindal’s. It was Bill Rutherford, who had taken a load of cattle to Toronto
and got back that far. He left the truck and walked to Arthur and it was three
weeks before he came back to get his truck.
One
of our guests was a Cope Transport driver who we called Lee. He helped with the
chores and fitted in as one of the family. He left that Sunday also, but got
stuck again the next week at Gordon Howes, a few miles up the road, and came
back to our place instead of going to the first farm house in sight. He spent
three weeks with us this time and when he got unstuck, Doreen and I went with
him to Durham as Doreen had not seen her mother all winter and had good news for
her as she was to become a grandmother for the first time that next August. I
returned home and the following Sunday, the first of April, to find the flats
just west of our corner were flooded and almost ready to break through the snow
banks to flood the highway.
What
a winter to remember.
We
have had many storms since, but none quite so exciting as the winter of '47.
It stormed for three days steady and the train was stuck just east of
Grand Valley for over a week and Highway #9 was open for only seven days in
March. We still visit with Lee and
his wife near Sutton.
LIFE
ON THE FARM
Mother
and dad lived on the farm until retiring to Grand
Valley in 1960, selling the farm to Herbert and Else Birkholz, who came from
Germany in 1954. The Birkholz still
operate and live on that farm today. After many years of enjoyable retirement my
parent's health began to fail and they both went to Dufferin Oaks, a seniors
building in Shelburne on February 1,
1971. Here, they were well cared for until dad died in March 1973 at the old age
of 85. Mother never really coped very well as she had hardening of the arteries
which caused severe memory lose and dementia. She died in August of 1981. They
are both buried in Grand Valley Union Cemetary beside Irwins mother, dad's first
wife Elizabeth.
Doreen
and I continued to live on the original homestead and raised a family of five.
Larry in 1947, Nadine in 1950, Cheryl and Darryl, the twins in 1953 and last but
not least Alita in 1966. In 1959 I went to work with the Co-op for three years
and then in 1968 I worked for the Ontario Mutual Insurance Company in Grand
Valley.
Near
tragic events on a farm seem to be common place when growing up, and now when I
look back on them I realize how we all had guardian angels watching over us.
One
such event was when the boys were very young and were playing in the barn
swinging on a rope suspended from a
large barn beam which were across the rafters. Suddenly the beam came crashing
down to the barn floor just missing Cheryl who was watching the boys having fun.
To this day, she remembers that frightening loud noise.
One
day, when Nadine was around the age of four went to collect eggs with me. When
she opened the hen house door, the big rooster met her, jumping at her and
splitting her head wide open just above her eye. Her mom asked her what had
happened seeing her with blood running down her face. She said "that damn
rooster got me". It seemed quite a speech coming from one so young. We
never forgot it. However she was taken down to Orangeville
to Dr. McGee who put in several stitches and it healed quite nicely. Of course
Dr. McGee could fix anything. He was such a fine doctor. Ours for twenty years
until his retirement.
The
only other very close call for Nadine had when she was very young was her run in
with her new found friend, the skunk. Many cans of Tomato juice later, she was
still unbearable to be near. She
wanted to bring him home as a pet.
After
selling our livestock in 1971 we borrowed a pony from Harry Montgomery for the
kids to enjoy and ride. This pony was his grandsons but had got the best of him
and would throw anybody off. Darryl and I went up to pick him up. When I got on
him he tried to buck me off, but I won out and then rode him home.
One
day Doreen found Alita who at the time was very young, out playing with the pony
in the orchard. Needless to say she had her out of that orchard in record time
and back in the house. I also recall one other day, when Alita was very young,
when Darryl was moving the tractor down by the pig pen and he was starting to
move foreward when Alita made an attempt to get on, as it was the small tractor
and she thought she could just jump on, but she was knocked down. Darryl, not
being aware of her presence, went into reverse and then went forward again,
starting to run the wheel up her leg. Doreen nearly came head first out the
kitchen window as she screeched and watched in horror and I was yelling from the
drive-shed. She was fine except for some bruising.
ANIMALS
ON THE FARM
Our
children always had their pets on the farm. I would say our farm dogs would be
the most important pet. When we were first married we got a Collie pup and named
him Skipper. He was our farm dog for many years - a very reliable friend. It was
a sad day when he had to be put down because of old age. We got another young
dog from a friend and we called him Skipper as well. He was a collie, wagging
his tail and showing his teeth when he was around people. They were frightened
of him, but he was only smiling.
We
had a black Labrador retriever and a shepherd after that, the later being
claimed by Darryl. Darryl went to Western
Canada in 1972 for five months before entering the
Police Force. When he returned his black shepherd "Sarg" didn't
know him, but when he got a sniff of Darryl, he felt so foolish. It was funny to
see how ashamed he was of himself.
Our
boys went into raising rabbits for awhile until the novelty wore off. We had
gone out of laying hens, so they took over the hen house for the rabbits. Anyone
knowing rabbits will know it does not take long to get into business. They were
cute little things. The weasels thought so too. Need I say more.
We
also had our share of barn cats as well. I think they could multiply almost as
fast as rabbits. There were many a litter the children never saw or even knew
were born. One such litter was found one day and one kitten in particular was
watched and nursed along so as to not land under the feet of the cattle and fall
into the water trough. Cheryl eventually brought the kitten to the house and
"Button" became our one and only house cat, until one day when he was
all grown up, he just disappeared. Of course I spoke of our horse King, earlier,
as being one of the children’s fondest and largest pets.
4
H
All
of our children were in 4H one way or another. Larry and Nadine started off by
showing an angus calf at the Fall Fair. Of course we had to go out and buy these
calves, as we didn't have anything in our herds suitable for 4H material.
We
bought our first angus from the Colbeck Bros. in Monecillo.
We kept building this breed until we had quite a number and all the kids always
had a calf to choose from. All summer long they had to train these calves which
had a mind of their own. We took one to the Toronto Exhibition one year called
'Elly'. She was quite a high strung animal, but once she got in a strange place
she really stuck close to her master and showed off very well.
The
first year Larry was in 4H he participated in the calf scramble at the C.N.E.
and won a calf. Larry, Nadine, Darryl, and Cheryl all showed their calves at
Grand Valley fall fair.
One
year there was a very stiff competition narrowed
down to Larry and Nadine, with Larry getting Grand Showman, and Nadine
runner up, only a hair between them. Larry was also the Grand Champion Showman
in the Orangeville Fall Fair as well that year. We were very proud of him. They
were in the swine club as well as grain and tractor. Willis was a Beef 4H leader
for 10 years. The girls belonged to 4H homemaking, taking many clubs in cooking,
sewing, gardening, etc. I believe Alita took the most, 18 projects in all.
In
1967 Nadine competed in the Dairy Princess Competition for Dufferin County. She
was runner up that year, but competed the following year and won that year and
the next. She then had the opportunity to compete at the Canadian National
Exhibition held in Toronto in November. It was a thrill for her and we were so
proud. Unfortunately she did not win as the competition was very tough.
SELLING
OF THE FARM
I
had farmed, along with my father for fifteen years, until he sold the James
Campbell farm and returned to Grand
Valley. After this, the boys Larry and Darryl and often our girls,
especially Nadine helped with the farming. In the summer it took everyone to
pitch in as there was much work to be done. Doreen kept us well fed, taking
meals, snacks and cold drinks to the field as to save time. We farmed like this
until 1971, when we had a sale, mainly to sell our dairy herd.
After
this the farm was cash cropped which lightened the work load considerably. This
was a good thing as by then Larry, our oldest son, was married to a lovely Fergus
lass, Wendy Tonkin and had settled in a new home which he had build himself at a
corner acre of the farm. Nadine was in nursing college and was engaged to be
married to a Fergus lad, Gary Boles.
Darryl had left home to go to college. That only left Cheryl and Alita at home.
I
was called on more and more to work with the Ontario Mutual Insurance Company as
a farm claims adjuster and agency supervisor, so was “burning the candle at
both ends.” Doreen could see how exhausted I was becoming, so we made the big
decision to sell the family farm. After telling our family of our plans Larry
and Wendy decided they would buy it and so we traded houses. They moved into the
old farm house and Doreen and I moved into their new home.
We
were both very happy with this change, but after four years of crop failures due
to bad weather, Larry and Wendy decided to sell the farm. So that sad day
finally came, the end of an era for the Campbell
Farm
after 104 years. We had a big auction sale in 1979.
Douglas
Gear, a farmer of hundreds of acres bought the farm, renting the house, cropping
the land and feeding about 150 beef cattle for market. Doreen and I stayed on
the corner lot of the farm and kept a watchful eye on the goings on up the road
until 1987 after which time we sold the property and came to Fergus.
We
bought a comfortable new two bedroom condominium over looking the Grand River.
It took us a while to get settled in as we both had lived in the country all our
lives. Luckily the neighbours were our age and very friendly and we have never
regretted the decision.
LIFE
AFTER THE FARM
Life
does go on and I must say with a whole lot less work and so much more time to
enjoy our 5 children, and our 8 grandchildren: Larry and Wendy’s Chris and
Corrie, Nadine and Gary’s Stacey and Joshua, Darryl and Elizabeth’s Dawn,
Cheryl and Stephen’s Jillian and Jared, and Alita and Jack’s Justin (who
reside in Texas). The list goes on as we now can enjoy our 5 greatgrandchildren:
Kelsey, Tegan, Lorissa, Drew and Jacob. As you may realize we now rent a hall
for our family get to-gethers.
Not
only did we enjoy our new found freedom but we now could go on trips and
vacations without thinking of getting home on time to milk the cows, so our
first destination was the Middle East. We enjoyed this so much that we decided
to be tour hosts and went back again for two additional trips, 1976 & 1979
each with something different for us to enjoy. We also went to Hawaii in 1977
and Europe in 1980 as tour hosts. We then vacationed in Jamaica, Florida and
Houston, Texas to visit our daughter Alita and her husband Jack and their son
Justin.
In
1996 Doreen and I celebrated our 50th Wedding anniversary. Married June 12, 1946
in Durham, Ontario. The occasion was held at the Fergus Seniors Recreation
Centre and well over 200 friends and relatives attended. Our family did most of
the planning and work for this very momentous and happy occasion. They did a
terrific job and we are most grateful to them. Their gift to us was the
downpayment for a beautiful Caribbean cruise aboard the Sun Princess. This had
always been one of Doreen’s life long dreams, next to marrying me of course.
We
continue to love each other and have lived life to the best and fullest that our
health has allowed us and have prospered in so many ways. What more could a man
ask for.